DDO has a F2P option coming out on the 9th... you get a flaming weapon based on your class at the end of the first dungeon which is about 10-15 mins after you start playing.
Um... you get a glowing weapon pretty quick in Perfect World too... if you open the item box thingy that you get at the start of the game... you can open it every 5 levels, you get the weapon at level 10 or 15.
In Ether Saga if you fuse with your pet your character glows.
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